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 Post Traumatic Stress Disorder
 







Yesterday, I talked about Post Traumatic Stress.  If you have ever had it, you already know what it is, but if you haven't experienced it for yourself, it might be hard for you to understand ...


What is Post Traumatic Stress Disorder?

Post-traumatic stress disorder is an anxiety disorder that's triggered by your memories of a traumatic event — an event that directly affected you or an event that you witnessed.

  • Post Traumatic Stress Disorder may develop following exposure to extreme trauma.
  • Extreme trauma is a terrifying event or ordeal that a person has experienced, witnessed or learned about, especially one that is life-threatening or causes physical harm. It can be a single event or repeated experience.
  • The experience causes that person to feel intense fear, horror or a sense of helplessness.
  • The stress caused by trauma can affect all aspects of a person’s life, including mental, emotional and physical well-being.
  • Research suggests that prolonged trauma may disrupt and alter brain chemistry. For some people, this may lead to the development of Post Traumatic Stress Disorder.
The disorder commonly affects survivors of traumatic events, such as domestic violence, sexual assault, physical assault, war, torture, a natural disaster, an automobile accident, an airplane crash, a hostage situation or a death camp. Post traumatic stress disorder also can affect rescue workers at the site of an airplane crash or a mass shooting. It can affect someone who witnessed a tragic accident.


Why Should we learn About Post Traumatic Stress Disorder?

Not everyone involved in a traumatic event experiences post-traumatic stress disorder. However, the disorder affects more than 5 million adults each year in the United States. You or someone you know may experience trauma at some time in your life!  Learning about Post Traumatic Stress Disorder can help you: Cope with Trauma and / or help others.

Signs and symptoms

Signs and symptoms of post-traumatic stress disorder typically appear within three months of the traumatic event. However, in some instances, they may not occur until years after the event and may include: 

  • Anxiety
  • Anger 
  • Avoiding anything that reminds the survivor of the incident  (those reminders can be thoughts, feelings, activities, places, people, songs or movies, even colors that might remind you of what happened) 
  • Physiological reactions to situations that remind you of the traumatic event ... may include an increase in blood pressure, a rapid heart rate, rapid breathing, muscle tension, nausea and diarrhea
  • Insomnia
  • Recurrent memories, or flashbacks of the trauma
  • Distress at anniversaries of the trauma 
  • Irritability
  • Difficulty concentrating or focusing
  • Feeling numb
  • Hyper-vigilance (feeling "on guard" all the time)
  • Survivor guilt
  • Lack of interest in family, friends or hobbies - feeling detached 
  • Nightmares
  • Jumpiness (especially at loud or sudden noises)
  • Restlessness
  • They may also suffer from depression, blame themselves or become suicidal
  • Overwhelming emotions
  • Hopelessness about the future 
  • Feeling as though they are "going crazy"
  • Fear "something bad" will happen
  • Difficulty sleeping

(The info above is from a booklet about Post Traumatic Stress Disorder put out by Blount Memorial Hospital in Maryville, Tennessee)


Who's at risk for developing Post Traumatic Stress Disorder?

Those who can be effected by PTSD include:

  • Anyone who has been victimized or has witnessed a violent act or who has been repeatedly exposed to a life-threatening situation.
  • Survivors of:
  • Car accidents or fires
  • Natural disasters, such as tornadoes or earthquakes
  • Major Catastrophic events such as a plane crash or terrorist act
  • Disasters caused by human error such as industrial accidents 
  • Survivors of unexpected events in everyday life:
  • Children who are neglected or sexually, physically or verbally abused or adults who were abused as children
  • Combat veterans or civilian victims of war
  • Those diagnosed with a life-threatening illness or who have undergone invasive medical procedures
  • Professionals who respond to victims in trauma situations such as emergency medical service workers, police, firefighters, military, and search and rescue workers
  • People who learn of the sudden, unexpected death of a close friend or relative
Risk factors

The severity of the traumatic event and how long the event lasted appear to be factors in the development of this disorder. Other factors that may increase the likelihood of developing post-traumatic stress disorder include:

  • A previous history of depression or other emotional disorder
  • A previous history of physical or sexual abuse
  • A family history of anxiety
  • Early separation from parents
  • Being part of a dysfunctional family
  • Alcohol abuse
  • Drug abuse
When to seek medical advice?

It's normal to undergo a wide range of feelings and emotions after a traumatic event. The feelings you experience may include fear and anxiety, a lack of focus, sadness, changes in sleeping or eating patterns, or bouts of crying that come easily. You may have recurrent thoughts or nightmares about the event. If you have these disturbing feelings for more than a month, if they're severe or if you feel you're having trouble getting your life back under control, consider seeing your doctor or a mental health professional.


Screening and diagnosis

Your doctor or mental health professional likely will ask you to describe the signs and symptoms you're experiencing — what they are, when they occur, how intense they are and how long they last. This will help your doctor or therapist learn more about your condition. Your doctor may also ask you to describe the event that triggered your symptoms to try to get a sense of how intense the event was and how it affected you. You may encounter some of the symptoms of post-traumatic stress disorder after a traumatic event, but you may not necessarily have a diagnosis of post-traumatic stress disorder. Diagnosing the condition requires that the symptoms be present longer than one month.


Complications

Having post-traumatic stress disorder may place you at higher risk for:

  • Depression, which has many of the same signs and symptoms as post-traumatic stress disorder
  • Drug abuse
  • Alcohol abuse
  • Eating disorders
  • Divorce
Treatment

Your doctor or a mental health professional may suggest a combination of medications and behavior therapy to treat post-traumatic stress disorder. The objectives of treatment are to reduce your emotional distress and the associated disturbances to your sleep and daily functioning, and to help you better cope with the event that triggered the disorder.


Coping skills

If distress caused by a past traumatic event persistently affects your life, seeing your doctor is a necessary first step along a course of professional treatment.

But you can take actions to help yourself cope:

  • Follow your doctor's instructions carefully. Although it may take a while to feel the effects of therapy, hang in there. You'll be better off in the long run.
  • Take care of yourself. Get enough rest, eat a balanced diet, exercise, and take time to relax. Avoid caffeine and nicotine, which can worsen anxiety. Don't turn to alcohol or un-prescribed drugs for relief.
  • Break the cycle. When you feel anxious, take a brisk walk or delve into a hobby to refocus.
  • Talk to someone. Share your problems with a friend or counselor who can help you gain perspective. Ask your doctor about support groups in your area for people who have post-traumatic stress disorder.

Recovery Takes Time

Survivors recover in stages.  They may start with one stage, go to another, and go back.  Each person processes the event his or her own way. 

PTSD symptoms usually appear within several weeks of the trauma, but some people don't experience symptoms until months, even years, later. PTSD can last six months for some people while others may experience symptoms for much longer. Again, it is important to understand that people respond differently to trauma. Some people will have a few problems, and these problems may go away without treatment. Others will need support and some kind of treatment before they can move forward with their lives.
 

Here are some stages a survivor might go through:

  1. Denial that the trauma had any effect on their lives. 
  2. Fear it will happen again. 
  3. Feel sad because of a loss of their ability to trust in people, or places. 
  4. Anger at what happened. 
  5. Anxiety over the nightmares or flashbacks that may intrude on the life of the survivor. 
  6. Feel as if a part of themselves died during the trauma.

There are some things in life that we just can't control.  Car accidents, fires, natural disasters, criminals who would make us their next victim.  We can control what we do after we have been hurt.  We can pick ourselves up, dust ourselves off and get help.  We can take care of ourselves.  We can take as much time as we need to recover and heal because the results have to last the rest of our lives!  

If you or a loved one has experienced extreme trauma and are still suffering, do whatever you have to ... Take Care Of YOU!





 

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 What If You Could Make The Hurt Go Away?
 






Are you hurting?  Has something just happened to you or someone you love?  Have you been carrying hurt for too long?  Have you ever wished you could just make it go away?  You can!  Did you know that there are things you can do to stop the hurt?  There are!

I want to tell you about a therapy that worked for me because maybe, it might work for you too?  I remember hearing about this being used with combat veterans who had suffered with Post Traumatic Stress for years, even decades ... I am not a combat veteran, but I did suffer from the effects of Post Traumatic Stress, and this therapy gave me a lot of real HEALING.

Maybe, It can help you too?  Let's talk about it ...



EMDR
(Eye Movement Desensitization Reprocessing)

Eye movement desensitization and reprocessing (EMDR) is a specialized form of psychotherapy that is used almost exclusively for treating PTSD (Post Traumatic Stress Disorder) and its associated conditions, including depression. EMDR typically is integrated into a conventional psychotherapy regimen and is not used alone to treat PTSD.

The theory behind EMDR is that stimulated rapid eye movement may help in the psychological processing of trauma. It is thought that the day's events and our reactions to them are processed during REM sleep . In a controlled EMDR session, moving light is used to induce rapid eye movement.


EMDR for PTSD (Post Traumatic Stress Disorder)

Who Can Be Helped By EMDR?

Positive therapeutic results with EMDR have been reported with a wide range of populations including the following:

  • Combat veterans from Desert Storm, the Vietnam War, the Korean War, and World War II who were formerly treatment resistant and who no longer experience flashbacks, nightmares, and other PTSD.
  • Persons with phobias and panic disorder who revealed a rapid reduction of fear and symptoms.
  • Crime victims and police officers who are no longer disturbed by the after-effects of violent assaults.
  • People relieved of excessive grief due to the loss of a loved one or to line-of-duty deaths, such as engineers no longer devastated with guilt because their train unavoidably killed pedestrians.
  • Children healed of the symptoms caused by the trauma of assault or natural disaster.
  • Sexual assault victims who are now able to lead normal lives and have intimate relationships.
  • Accident, surgery, and burn victims who were once emotionally or physically debilitated and who are now able to resume productive lives.
  • Victims of sexual dysfunction who are now able to maintain healthy sexual relationships.
  • Clients at all stages of chemical dependency, and pathological gamblers, who now show stable recovery and a decreased tendency to relapse.
  • People with dissociative disorders who progress at a rate more rapid than that achieved by traditional treatment.
  • People engaged in business, performing arts, and sport who have benefited from EMDR as a tool to help enhance performance.
  • Clients with a wide variety of PTSD and other diagnoses who experience substantial benefit from EMDR.

There are more controlled studies on EMDR than on any other method used in the treatment of PTSD.

http://www.healthyplace.com/communities/depression/treatment/emdr/ptsd.asp  )



Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)
Questions and Answers


What is EMDR?

EMDR, or "Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing" is a technique which utilizes a characteristic motion of the eyes in conjunction with therapeutic guidance to bring about emotional healing at an accelerated rate. Although not part of the original EMDR teachings, clinical experiences have repeatedly demonstrated that EMDR also helps accelerate the physical healing process.


What is the history of EMDR?

EMDR has been used by trained mental health professionals since 1989. Its originator, Francine Shapiro PhD, discovered that moving her eyes in certain directions reduced emotional tension. Integrating her clinical experience, Francine has formulated a unique method which she calls EMDR


Who can benefit from EMDR?

Anyone who has ever experienced an upset that they have not recovered from. Often these people have one or more of the following symptoms in varying degrees: feeling "stuck", excess stress/tension, depression, anxiety, restlessness, sleep trouble, fatigue, appetite disturbances, and ongoing physical health concerns despite treatment. In the more severe cases: panic attacks, flashbacks, nightmares, obsessions, compulsions, eating disorder, and suicidal tendencies.

On the physical health front, EMDR is also a wonderful technique to assist with the healing of any physical health concern.


How does EMDR treatment work?

When an upset is experienced, it can become locked in the nervous system with the original picture, sounds, thoughts, feelings, and body sensations. This upset is stored in the brain (and also the body) in an isolated memory network preventing learning from taking place. Old material just keeps getting triggered over & over again and you end up feeling "stuck" emotionally. In another part of your brain, in a separate network, is most of the information you need to resolve the upset. It's just prevented from linking up to the old stuff. Once processing starts with EMDR, the 2 networks can link up. New information can then come to mind to resolve the old problems.


How effective is EMDR?

When compared to other methods of therapy (psychoanalysis, cognitive, behavioral, etc), EMDR has been rated as far more effective by mental health professionals. Clients experience emotional healing at an accelerated rate. If we use the metaphor of a driving a car through a tunnel to get to the other side, (where the tunnel represents the journey of healing and the other side of the tunnel represents the healed state), EMDR is like driving your car through the tunnel at very high speeds. Because of this accelerated processing, you should notice improvement within each session.


How does the overall treatment with EMDR look?

EMDR focuses first on the past, second on the present and third on the future. The past is focused on first because it is the past unresolved pain (whether it is childhood or the more recent past) which is causing pain in the present. Dealing with the past is therefore going to the root of the problem. For example, if a client comes in with depression and she has a history of being depressed since a death in her family, we would focus on the time around the death first because it is the root of the depression.

Once the past pain has been cleared, most of the present symptom picture will also be cleared. If anything is left unresolved in the present, it is attended to next.

Then comes preparation for the future. Many people have fears about healing ... how their life will change, how they will function with their new perspective on the world, etc. "Future" work is about being prepared.


What will I experience during an EMDR treatment?

Before any EMDR treatment, there is a preparation & assessment phase. The purpose of the preparation phase is to help you feel safe within yourself and to explain and demonstrate EMDR techniques so you know what to expect. The purpose of the assessment phase is to isolate memories to work with in EMDR that are the root of your emotional/physical pain today. The length of time for each of these phases varies per person dependant upon their individual needs.

Once the preparation and assessment phases are complete, the treatment phase begins. You will be asked to focus on a "target" image (one selected together during the assessment phase) while following the practioners fingers (open palm of hand or a pen) with your eyes. Once you start the eye movement, you will find it very difficult to focus on the memory. This is normal. The initial focusing on the memory opens the door to the memory, the EMDR completes the processing on a deeper subconscious level.

The eye movements are done in short sets (15-30 sec) with breaks in between of varying length dependant upon your needs. The sets continue until processing is complete for a given memory. You can stop the process at any time by raising your hand. It is important to remember that your brain is doing the processing and that you are the one in control.

EMDR is a passive process. Just will be asked to just let whatever happens, happen. You may experience feelings, thoughts, body sensations. You may experience nothing. Whatever you experience, you will be asked to notice it as if you were passing by it on a train rather than being within the experience. If at any time you feel overwhelmed, you only need to raise your hand to stop the process. You will be asked to share what comes up in the break between sets. There are no right or wrong answers.

Your feelings surrounding a given event will be rated by you (from 1-10) both prior to and after EMDR treatment. The aim of every EMDR session is noticeable improvement by the time you leave the session.


How long does each EMDR session last?

Sessions are done in either 60 or 90 min intervals.


How frequently is EMDR treatment recommended?

Dr. Shapiro recommends once per week if possible. However, I believe that frequency is about what ultimately feels comfortable for you.


How long is the overall treatment with EMDR?

It is important to note that EMDR is always done in the context of an overall therapy plan. The EMDR time portion itself varies for each individual. Starting off with at least 3 sessions of EMDR will give you some idea of its effectiveness for you and the rate at which you are healing. From there it is dependant upon your individual needs and situation.

Source: Julie Pegg ND, RPC Naturopathic Doctor, Registered Counselor
Link: 
Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) Q & A 



I understand the process and the theories but my personal experience with EMDR was profound. 

I can't describe the pain of post traumatic stress in clinical terms, but I can tell you how it felt for me.  I felt heaviness in my chest like my heart was about to explode.  Emotionally, I felt like I was constantly on the edge of tears and a panic attack could happen at any moment.  I was too afraid to sleep for very long periods of time and if I did, I had nightmares about being chased with a gun.  Almost anything could trigger a panic attack ... from new stories, chase scenes in movies, songs on the radio, even black cars (my attacker drove a black car) ...   loud noises or sudden movements ... even the phone ringing ... Everything felt like a potential threat.  I was exactly at that point when I had my first EMDR treatment.

Visualizing the night I was threatened by the gun, even though I was instructed to imagine it like it was outside "the train" was still WAY TOO CLOSE!  Holding the memory in my mind, even for a few seconds, made me feel physically ill.  My physical and emotional reactions were strong ... but quickly, almost miraculously, that scene and a LOT of the feelings that went with it seemed to just melt away like passing by them on a train ... As I moved away from the FEAR, the heaviness in my chest started to lift and I felt like I could breath again ...

It is hard for me to break every moment down for you.  Describing my own healing isn't as important as communicating that IF YOU ARE STILL EXPERIENCING EXTREME PAIN AND LOSS, Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing might help lift that pain and significantly heal you too!

I never was much of a believer in therapy ... mostly because I didn't really understand it and probably didn't think I needed it ... But therapy was a significant element in my recovery.  I am grateful for the help I received from my therapist who is a truly gifted healer.

I am sharing this therapy with you for the same reason I share everything else ... to give you hope ... There can be an end to your suffering.  You don't have to hurt anymore.  There are things you can do.  As always,

Take Care Of YOU!



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 Spring & Summer At The Same Time !!!
 

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 Crossing Over
 




 
 
I've walked too many friends to the edge of today ...
A few deaths turned into a few more ...

Here I am again,
Asking someone I love,
"We're almost to the end, aren't we?"
I could hear her tired sigh, "I think so."

The quiet place between sentences.

"Is there anything you need?"
"Not anything I can think of."
"Is there anything I can do?"
Another tired sigh, "Pray that God gives me strength."
 
The quiet place between sentences.

I feel so small and helpless ...
I wish I could take the pain away.
I bow my head and shut my eyes,
Praying for strength ... for her and for me.

The quiet place between sentences.

There's peace in knowing her pain will soon be over
As I watch her ... 
Crossin over to Home ...
In the wide open, sweet someday ...







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